How Do You Know You Are A Failure?

I am there staring at the challenge I have set for myself. I start looking at the circumstances and say to my self "I can't do it, it's impossible" or "I'll do it later" and so many other excuses. I than rebuke myself for thinking that way. I don't accept being a failure yet I think like one and that's one of the things that I work hard not to become a failure. I don't accept being a failure because I know that I will not go very far.

How do you know you are a failure?

1. You give excuses
2. You look at the circumstances
3. You are negative
4. You blame others
5. You have fear
6. You have doubts


When people set goals for themselves to open a business or learning to speak a different language what ever it is many people give up in the middle of the process. Some even wait for there luck to come around. Well the luck will never ever come because while you are waiting for your luck to come around people are working hard and sacrificing so they can get to there goals. If you talk to someone successful they are not going to say it was luck. Most people have to give up things in order for them to achieve there goals. But they never accept what they have. One of things of being a failure is having a little vision or no vision at all. In order to be successful you need to have a big vision. And while others think its crazy because what you are doing it will get you somewhere.


Something that a person lacks is being bold. Many people are afraid of "going for it.” They think "What are they going to say" or "What are they going to think about it/me". Than they start asking for opinions which is one of the things that a person shall not do. You should always think about different methods if one does not work you try another method until you find a method that works.

In Faith, Arely