Saturday, October 31, 2009

The Mature Woman


The mature woman, as the name suggests, is like a ripe fruit, full life and flavor... fruit desired by those who appreciate the true taste, the best of life.


She faced prejudices in a time when others determined that women were to perform minor roles. Her maturity came with time and shaped her form and mentality. These changes came through much struggle, mostly internal, where a series of concepts and complexes bred inside her head from an early age.Today's youth have no idea of the struggles of these charming mature women. Thanks to her aging, her spirit is balanced and full of harmony, like no other stage of her life. She has lived a lot, gone through much diversities, and faced many problems and pitfalls. But she wants her space and right to life. She wants to live her life to its fullest, and she has that right which was acquired with praise.


She doesn't expect promises at this stage of life, promises are not suitable anymore. She's all about decisions - it's time for decisions and achievements. It's either do or don’t, good or bad. She no longer accepts complications, time is an essence now. The past, present, and future merge to form a single time in her life: the present time. She cannot and does not want to cling to past events, nor does she worry too much about the future. She wants to live the moment, and that is why she chooses what she wants for today. She's selective with her friends. She knows what she wants and goes for it.


Whoever insists in ignoring her way of looking at life, or are just unable to recognize the fruit at its right time, will lose an opportunity and will be excluded by her. The fruit is ripe, but, to harvest it, it is necessary to know the appropriate time, without precipitation. It needs to be done with great tact, care, and affection.


No time to be reckless, nor too slow. You have to be decided and use the right time. You'll be required a certain knowledge of the female soul. Know that, as fragile as she appears to be, she is very sure of herself. She knows the right time to act, and does it with charm and elegance. Delicate and incisively, she does not disappoint.


She is not ashamed of her age; on the contrary, she is proud of the years lived and of being a mature fruit. However, she regrets that some people will be content to collect unripe grapes, mainly because they don’t know how to give its due proper value.


She knows that the best way to hold her partner is making him think that she sets him free. She does not impose her company but makes it necessary. She's creative. Her partner looks at her potential and stays by her side because he wants to, not because he has to. She's a total woman, she's valued, and she knows just how to be a companion. She does not want to get ahead, but neither admits falling behind. She has a bag of life and knows exactly how to use it, extracting all life lessons and deleting all life's trash. She knows how to live.This is the portrait of the mature woman. You're fortunate if you recognize her and give her the proper value. When she's in love, she's her best. She's art and determination itself.



(Unknown author)



In Faith, Arely

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